Many people will have this experience, a relationship at the beginning, two people want to be tired of together all the time.
Karpman Kappman, an American psychologist, found that everyone had a triangular drama in their hearts: Victim Victims, Rescuer saviours, Persecutor Persecutor Persecutors. From earlier, we would switch between these three roles, and when you play one of them, you unconsciously play the corresponding role to maintain the balance of the triangle. This psychological drama plays out in the hearts of each of us, every day in our lives, perhaps you never realize it.
Many girls have such experience, boys are very enthusiastic when chasing girls, once established, they start to become cold, especially after having sex.
Men are suddenly cold to you, often handling different situations in different ways.
Every couple from the encounter – know each other – love, will experience from hot to cold state, because you need a little bit of contact, understanding each other, in the process of slowly familiar with each other, is what we call the love period.
After the break-up, we will have a lot of questions, why good love said no, why the man who used to be so happy with me, now become so strange, become so cold. If you have a heart, you will find that most men after the break-up will remain indifferent to their predecessors, in fact, there is a reason for this.
Two people together for a long time, inevitably there will be a decrease in freshness, even less and less intimate, this is the emotional cold period. There are only three possibilities why your feelings have become lighter.
We already know that differences in thinking patterns between men and women due to differences in the structure and activity of their brains often lead to conflicts between men and women in love.
The biggest difference between cold and not love is that: cold period is only temporary emotional ups and downs, and not love is a direct precursor to breaking up. Reflected in the specific performance, mainly reflected in these two points.