In love, learn to properly pretend to be “vulnerable”, so that men love you more deeply, so that love shows the way you like.
Do you like yourself? This problem with age, we are the world’s interpersonal relationships, began to doubt what kind of person they are, began to gradually arm themselves, to find a way to make themselves a strong and brave person.
Vulnerability, which is used to describe someone or something as vulnerable to physical or emotional attack and injury, manifests itself as a fragile trait.
Fragile, sensitive, not unsafe, put together, the high probability is related to lack of love (unsafe attachment).
Our emotions are equally rare. The precious thing about vulnerability is that it is difficult for us to accept and show our vulnerability to others, and the beauty is that it is this part of our fragile true self that allows us to embrace ourselves and the world at every moment.
If you meet someone for the first time, after chatting and eating with them, do you think they might not like themselves that much?
The most people don’t notice, what about the few who notice?”
I believe that many girls have such distress, the other side is a funny, very good people, but after a few dates, whenever she recalls the chat scene when dating, always feel that they did not play well.
When we were children, we used to think that when we grew up we would no longer be vulnerable. but to grow up is to accept vulnerability. To be alive is to be vulnerable.” ——Madeleine L’Engle
We should take the initiative to remain vulnerable: it is braver to choose vulnerability than to deliberately demonstrate perfection and strength.