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Recently, a friend of my best told me that she had started a special love model:

“We agree that we can not disclose to others the news that they have boyfriend and girlfriend, and can date other opposite sex. However, when they are together, they should be fully devoted to each other and get along as friends. I hope our feelings will not bind each other, and both sides in love are free.” 

“Types of love relationships—-11 types of love”

In fact, it used to be very difficult to accept this kind of love relationship, and I think that non-public love is not loving, and I can not accept that the partner can not date other people at the same time.

But I gradually found that with the social value more and more diversified, everyone’s emotional outlook and intimate relationship type also become richer and richer, the only partner is no longer a specific love model. So, what are the different types of love between lovers? What is the interaction between the two sides in their daily life in different modes? We summarize several typical patterns of adult love and let’s see if there is one of you.

1. ethnographic love

definition:

There is a method of investigation and research in anthropology, called ethnography. It refers to the research through first-hand participatory observation through entering the (cultural/social) environment to be studied. It is also known as “field ethnography”. This kind of lover, with the spirit of anthropology, aims at collecting interesting human beings and starts dating and falling in love.

Constellation philately and regional philately can be regarded as the lower level and lower academic level in ethnographic love.

characteristic:

Each date has a distinctive and attractive feature. These lovers have curiosity about human nature in love. They are more interested in understanding human beings than intimate relationships themselves, even try their own examples.

mentality:

Curiosity, freshness, research, flaunt, etc.

“Types of love relationships—-11 types of love” 

 

2. role play love

definition:

In the theory of “pseudo drama”, sociologist Goffman pointed out that society can be regarded as a theatre, and everyone can shape the image of self through the role. Role-playing lovers move their love daily to the theatre, and they rarely show their true self completely, and love like script characters.

characteristic:

Both sides have specific role orientation, lines and plots are packaged, deliberately shaping some kind of human design and some plot, with a certain degree of game nature.

Two people love like a script.

mentality:

False intimacy, performance personality, game psychology, stimulation, etc

3. open relationship love

definition:

An open relationship is a kind of non-monogamy intimate relationship that the participants (even many parties) agree with. It is emphasized that the relationship between the two sides does not have exclusiveness and does not need absolute loyalty from the perspective of sex.

characteristic:

In a relationship, both parties can have dates or multiple partners at the same time. Such a person is difficult to focus on the only relationship, never finds the characteristics of love with others, and can simultaneously develop an intimate relationship with multiple people.

mentality:

Fraternity, distraction, weak connection, abundant emotion, etc.

“Types of love relationships—-11 types of love”

4. Years old friends love

definition:

From a friend to a lover.

characteristic:

They know the root and know the bottom for many years. They have lived through the growth stage of different lives together. They know each other’s character, background and concept, have a stable and deep emotional foundation, and even know all the feelings they have experienced. Two situations are more common: one is that friendship has been transformed into love for many years, and the other is that one side has always held together to be friends and wait for the right opportunity.

mentality:

Growth love concept, familiarity, security, awareness of slow.

5. symbiotic love

definition:

A kind of intimate relationship related to addiction. Both parties have an absolute dependence on each other emotionally, and some of them are also reflected in the close connection of daily relationships.

characteristic:

In such a relationship, one side’s dependence can bring the other party a sense of achievement, and the personal value is embodied, so the other side “depends on the dependence of the partner”.

mentality:

Attachment addiction, loneliness, parasitic psychology, control and control, narcissism, etc

6. trial and wrong love

definition:

The trial and error method is a kind of learning method applied to many subjects and verified by pure experience. People who apply this method to love tend to find the best result through experience and try to find the best result.

characteristic:

They have a clear purpose of marriage and love and have essential differences from playing with feelings. They can find the right partner by trying to love quickly. Their love experience is usually more times, rapid progress, low requirements for love threshold, but also can be quickly separated.

mentality:

Clear objectives, functionalism, time crisis, experimental psychology, etc

7. love with real life

definition:

A partner who develops feelings from physical relationships.

characteristic:

From the rational point of view, they think sex and love can be completely separated, but they often meet the objects that only want to have physical relations, but find that there is no way to control their feelings.

mentality:

Integration of body and mind, sensibility, lack of security, false alienation, etc

8. spare wheel love

definition:

Keep looking for the next partner in a relationship, always having such an idea, or having more than a friend with other heterosexuals.

characteristic:

There is no emotion or satisfaction with the partner and is not willing to admit their partnership actively, but the other party’s efforts satisfy them, and at the same time, they have a certain degree of guilt. They will enter the relationship first and wait until the next right person is found before they change.

mentality:

Self-interest, fear and emotion break, loneliness, lack of self-worth, etc.

09. from one to the last

definition:

Love only one person in life

characteristic:

Most of the relationships are born in their youth and have a long stable foundation. In the love relationship, two people gradually integrate into the feelings of family and friendship, which is very firm for the relationship between the two people, and they have a special significance of “unique” to each other.

mentality:

Familiarity, long feelings, stable emotions, love inertia, etc

10. love and kill love

definition:

Love is a tangled love that is both in love and in mutual harm. Love each other very much, desire to be together, together and much-hurt desire to separate.

characteristic:

The two people are not suitable in their way of life, but they still entangle pain repeatedly, unable to separate, sometimes the sweet feeling erupts, sometimes they suffer from each other, and the pain is difficult to bear. Evidence of deep love that cannot be separated and pain is deep.

mentality:

Addicted to pain, self-abuse, revenge psychology, emotional, sense of salvation, etc

11. nurturing love

definition:

Simulation nurturing game is a kind of game type, which needs to cultivate specific objects (people or animals) in the game and make it succeed, which brings about a sense of achievement. In formative love, one side has obvious cultivation and manipulation of the other.

characteristic:

The main feature is cross-age love, the difference is about 10 years old. The older one is more mature and superior in material and psychological aspects and has a different degree of intervention in the life and ideas of the other party.

mentality:

Control, self-discipline, strength, psychological stability, sense of achievement, etc

Apart from the above types, I believe many types are not mentioned. Love is a universal and special thing. Everyone yearns for it, but it has countless forms and appearances. In these different types of love, the date of acquaintance is different, the frequency of meeting is different, even the number of partners can no longer be the only one. However, once the relationship is confirmed, it means sharing and undertaking together, all the sweetness and pain of life.

From campus to work, we begin to bear the pressure of age, time, work and society. They are like an invisible wave, which not only pushes us forward but also quietly changes all the intimate relationships. It is more and more difficult to surrender your sincerity. You have such thoughts. It is not easy to have them. The other side doesn’t want them yet.

Of all the different types of intimacy, I feel the most important, only the one in the relationship. Love is like a contract, because of love, we are willing to perform together. And all the terms and regulations in it do not need to be understood by others. As long as they agree with each other comfortably, they are warm and lovely, only belong to our secret.

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