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Are you sure you haven’t misunderstood a man?


1) as if we have a little more bad men around us?

Do you think that when men chased you, they were over-intentioned:

That’s when you open your eyes in the morning and you can see his message, and then you can talk all day as if there’s something you can’t say. And he doesn’t feel tired, even if he talks to you all day long.

But that changed not a few months after you decided to fall in love.

Most of the time it becomes you send him a message, you take the initiative to find the topic, you all the time after him to ask “what are you doing?” Because he always replies slowly, words are poor, and he seems careless.

“What to do when your boyfriend doesn’t care anymore”

It wasn’t until later that I discovered that I always felt like I was meeting “bad men”, probably because I had been brainwashed by the prevailing rhetoric in today’s society, which had a misunderstanding of men.

2), he really catches up and doesn’t love you?

There has always been an argument on the Internet that “he loves you and you will be willing to accompany you”.

The implication is that if he loves you, he must give up his hobbies, rest time, in addition to going to work to make money is around you, even at work, as long as you send him a message, he has to return seconds.

It’s a “new PUA” for men, but the problem is that almost all girls in love believe it, and they’re flocking to it as a criterion for judging boyfriends:

“Why haven’t you returned my information for so long, you used to be seconds back!”

“Just a few words back, do you want to be a little perfunctory?” Well, you really don’t love me anymore…”

“What to do when your boyfriend doesn’t care anymore”

Some girls are more exaggerated, they every four or five seconds to brush the phone WeChat, see if there is any new news, all day in addition to brushing the phone nothing else can do …

In fact, in men’s place, chat, companionship and “love do not love you” really do not have a half-dime relationship.

He never thought he’d show loyalty by “turning around you.”

In other words, he doesn’t return your message, it’s a pain for you, but he can’t feel it himself.

And on the other hand, you don’t go back to his message, you’re proud to steal music here, he doesn’t have any perception, even a little dark.


With this in mind, do you think of it, too:

Perhaps you are not right to realize that “men don’t love you that much when they catch up with you”.

The truth is that after catching up with you, the hunter relaxes his guard and returns to the most relaxed state, while your desires are aroused in the time he chases you.

“What to do when your boyfriend doesn’t care anymore”

You’re used to his company, you want more, and he’s too tired to rest. Among them, there are unknowing contradictions and conflicts.

Second, confidants know each other, to “Jok Gang”

1). What exactly does the man want?

Ladies we have to admit as if we’re always used to being on our own.

Since girls themselves have the four major needs of being cared for, cared for, accompanied, and accommodated, we should be able to do the same for men.

So desperately hush cold ask warm, cooking to deliver food, but also from time to time mature around his big head called him “little fool.”

All this moved not, but for a long time, men should still be tired of weariness, the alienation of alienation.

Why is that?

Because you love the wrong way! That’s not how men love! 

Let’s put it this way, men aren’t what you think they are.

The above you give to the man, can indeed meet his physiological needs, let him feel comfortable in a rational state, but still can not meet his spiritual needs, let him in the emotional state feel that “no one in the world can replace you.”

In fact, men’s four main needs are “respected, needed, worshipped, understood”.

If you have a firm grasp of the essence of these 12 words, satisfy their desire to carve in the bone.

Well, let men from morning till night remember to talk to you, as soon as you are free to run with you to see the stars to see the moon to talk about life, it is not a dream!


2), let’s reacquaint yourself with men’s four needs!

First of all, it is “respected”.

This is mainly reflected in the disagreement with men, whether we can express affirmation and recognition of his views.

Of course, it’s not really about what happens to you, it’s unconditional, but in communication, smart ladies we’d better say this:

“I think what you said is not unreasonable, you think so must be for xxxxx reasons, did not expect you to consider so well.” But I still think xxxxxx, don’t you think? ”

The essence of this sentence lies in giving a man face in the first place and taking care of his self-esteem.

When a man’s face problem is not a problem, your needs/suggestions are no longer a problem.

For example, if you want him to take you shopping after work, he refused because it was “too late”, you can try to say:

“Husband you are right as if seven or eight o’clock past the mall is a little late Oh. I know you must be worried that coming home too late will affect my sleep, you think so for me, I am so moved. But people still want to go shopping, there are a few things in particular want to buy, if you can’t buy it will really lose sleep, your husband will take me to it, okay? ”

Hhhhhhh, believe me, the one in your house must have lost his temper in an instant, and the fart took you.


A man’s second just need is, “needed.”

The “needed” here refers specifically to the affirmation that he is expressed promptly when he has accomplished something you want him to do.

Continuing with the above “he takes you shopping after work” case, a wise woman will remember on the way home from the street, holding his hand happy to say:

“Husband why are you so good ah, I want to come shopping at night, you really brought me, tonight I am so happy!”

In this way, nine out of ten, and then he will be more willing to work hard to meet your small needs.

Because men pay for women, in essence, they want to get their sense of self-worth from the emotional value that women give.

Men have an equation in their hearts: women give positive feedback, their own pay sense, their own value is affirmed.

In the final analysis, it is also a face project ah.

A man’s third need is to be worshipped.

You’re certainly no stranger to this, I’m just worried that you don’t necessarily remember it in your daily life.

So promise me, read this answer today, remember! It’s okay, be sure to boast more about the man in your house!

Especially when he comes to show off to you, you can seize the opportunity to praise him and recognize him.

The only trick is to pay attention to authenticity, detail, specificity!!

For example:

“Husband, the dishes you’ve been cooking lately are getting better and better”;

“Husband, recently you made more and more delicious dishes, today this sugar and vinegar ribs outside the crispy tender, should be a good grasp of the fire, I drop old swan, how do you do it?”

These two kinds of praise effect are not the same Oh!

The last man’s need is to be “understood.”

I put it in the end because we don’t use “understanding” techniques when there is no conflict.

After all, “understanding men” generally only happens when your needs are completely rejected by men, even when men take the initiative to attack you (that is, quarrel).

So how do we express our understanding of him at this critical juncture?

It’s not hard.

As long as we quickly find out why he has a negative emotion, then use words to help him express his grievance or anger, and to acknowledge and understand his current emotions and behaviours.

By this time, presumably, his anger had been half gone. For the rest, just give him a little time to be alone.

I won’t give any examples, after all, they’re all too extreme.

It’s just that ladies you have to remember that smart women can use “understanding” to defuse a man’s “aggression”, which is the most magical “ejigang” in the world.

Yes, knowing men and respecting them is the only way to make him love you more and more.

Because this is fundamental to human nature.

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