After the break-up, we will have a lot of questions, why good love said no, why the man who used to be so happy with me, now become so strange, become so cold. If you have a heart, you will find that most men after the break-up will remain indifferent to their predecessors, in fact, there is a reason for this.
A person’s indifference to others is usually to protect himself. Therefore, men after the break-up to maintain apathy towards you, in fact, is also a measure of self-protection.
First of all, men are not always strong, their hearts are often very fragile, and the impact of break-up is often painful, in pain, men in order not to make themselves uncomfortable, or in order not to let themselves over-guilt, always subconsciously avoid the predecessor, sometimes really avoid, but also with cold words to face, which for them, more or less can weaken their own negative state of mind.
So, in the face of a man’s indifference, don’t worry, don’t be afraid, keep a little distance, then you will give him enough security, his window will naturally be willing to open for you again.
Different hearts are not just women’s patents, men are better at different hearts. So how nostalgic he is about you, how indifferent he sometimes is.
Think about it from a different angle, when you desperately want something and can’t get it anyway, do you pretend that it’s not what I want at all?
“My boyfriend is being distant—-why is my boyfriend so indifferent to me after breaking up”
Children’s mentality, you can understand that men are sometimes really like forever small children, and after the break-up, you are like that toy, he clearly like, but how can not pull the face back, naturally will be depressed, and then negative mentality explosion, indifference is also a matter of course.
When he has no feelings for you at all, he will maintain a respectful attitude towards you.
This is a man’s generality, although he does not exclude the past, but will exclude you, so when a man really do not feel, you can easily judge from his indifference.
Of course this can be changed, but it also requires a lot of effort on your part.
Of course, we can not deny that there are other circumstances, but at its root, after the break-up, the most terrible is not the other side’s indifference, but their own initiative to give up.
There is a saying: as long as you take the initiative we will have a story, used in the break-up is also appropriate, like writing a book, as long as you are willing to continue to write down, will certainly be able to write a flower ending.