Someone once privately letter to me, she always can’t help but want to say break up, but after saying and regretting, she also knows that this is not right, but just can’t control themselves, the key moment is still the same.
How many ways to start a breakup?
Psychologist Leslie Baxter (1986) once asked 64 male and 93 female students to write papers on how they split up. After the research, Baxter concluded that there is a clear classification of the way of breaking up: direct or indirect breakup. In some cases, people will clearly propose a break-up; however, it is found that in most cases, people tend to use indirect strategies to end the relationship without raising a break-up.
Clearly in love, but feel very lonely, two people do not have much emotional communication and interaction, there is likely emotional neglect, meaning that the two sides need to communicate, and communication after no change, maybe timely stop loss.
As a first step, when you find yourself with the thoughts and impulses to connect with your predecessor, use STOP immediately, which is to stop all the behaviour at hand. Our goal is not to be impulsive, not to make emotional behaviour, so as not to regret it.
I often meet a lot of people asking me, my predecessor does not return the news how to do? In fact, they are more not do not know how to do, if an ordinary person does not return the news we do not feel anything, and the love of the person does not return the news this matter can be long-term consumption and waiting for people to produce great self-denial.
Boys put down, usually calms.
They are not like girls as big a publicity, after the heart to show the world, but also fitness is learning, with extraordinary positive to cover up the pain of breaking up, to inform everyone in a way, to suggest that they want to “normal life.”
Try to fantasize about the married life with the other side, but find that there is no euphoria as if to see themselves a person tired of life, in the chores of life is about to suffocate the figure, and the other side is still leisurely self-deal breaker should be, aware that they did not have the courage to live with each other. live a “bachelor” life. Imagination is the only way to feel that feeling of despair.
Women need to know, with a man in love to marry or recover, do not be too emotional, know that if you do not let a man in the process of contact with you constantly raise costs, invest in you. It’s more expensive to separate him from you.
Two situations: emotional breakup and thoughtful breakup.
In fact, no matter what you do when you break up, he will think of you.
Want to be divided into two kinds, one is to think, the other is to miss.