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I do the work of visiting all the year- year-old, simply said, is to communicate with others in a very short period of time, to gain trust,

And to maximize the other side to open their hearts, there is a deeper heart collision.

It’s a difficult job, but over the years, it’s also allowed me to accumulate some tips for communicating with people.

1 Express your likes and appreciations of each other frankly.

People are very sensitive, whether the other side likes themselves, at a glance.

Candidly come up to express their feelings and appreciation, simple praise and praise will let the other side relax.

2 Small gifts work.

not necessarily a big thing, small to a book, a card, a small plate, carefully prepared candy,

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Can let the other side relax, there is a sense of being valued.

3 Smile silently and nod frequently.

In the process of communicating with each other, look them in the eye in good faith,

Smiling silently, nodding frequently, yes, just like good students in class and teacher communication, is good.

4 The first student to answer that, do not directly deny the other party’s views, is very correct.

First acknowledge each other’s efforts and opinions to “have been very good, in the premise of excellence,

You see, wouldn’t it be better if we did that? It would be much better. 

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5 So how do you make a negative comment?

If one thing you don’t think is right, but it’s not convenient to speak up, you can guide yourself to discover it.

Okay, so let’s build a toilet the size of a swimming pool.

Who’s going to transport it? What’s the cost? How do you maintain it?

Guide the other person to find his own mistakes, but also let him understand your respect and support for him.

6 Follow each other’s social networks.

Everyone has a neck ah circle of friends, watching from time to time.

When communicating, a sentence or two says, “Ah, I saw your dog”, “Is your mother better lately?” “The movies you recommend look good.

Get up close and personal quickly, reducing communication costs.

7 Keep giving your own information.

“Oh, I’m actually the same…” “Last week, I did a stupid thing” “This is my favourite movie, don’t you?” “

When communicating with the other side, in fact, the amount of information on both sides is often not equal.

The other person knows you, maybe not as much as you know the other person.

Then, constantly and naturally give their own information, let the other side know you.

Hiding behind an identity, it’s hard for each other to open their hearts,

When you become a living person, the other person also lives.

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8 Say less “me, me, me” and “we”.

Do things in a team, try not to say too much “you’re not right” “I think” …

Instead, use the word “we”. “We can actually try again” “Our goal is …”

There is no “I”, only “we”.

9 If it comes to the point where it’s hard to talk about, drink tea for dessert.

When conditions permit, if it’s hard to talk about, stop.

Order a cup of coffee and dessert and the atmosphere and mood will ease.

It works!

Here are some of the best things not to do in communication and communication:

10 Don’t be picosecond and communicate with each other with presets and practises.

Even if it’s worse, the worst-case scenario, don’t present that the other person is bad and malicious,

Communicate with each other with the utmost goodwill.

“Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.”

11 Don’t ask questions with answers.

“You weren’t ready to put in this relationship in the first world, were you?”

“The play isn’t really the role you want to play, is it?”

It would be disrespectful to ask a question with a personal answer.

Lara said so much, in fact, many of her friends said this point:

People live in this world, not just on their own.

Everyone lives with people, close to family, loved ones, friends,

Peripherals have colleagues, bosses, customers, competitors, and even enemies.

Every moment, in the people, in communication and communication.

My biggest feeling lately is that the biggest obstacle is “I’m persistent”.

I take too much “I insist”, in fact, to take themselves seriously, too care about their feelings.

Their own grievances, their own emotions, their own not understood uncomfortable, their own efforts…

My friend said, the so-called grievance, is not to put themselves down.

And a too much “I insist”, only to see their own people, and how to see other people’s feelings, other people’s hearts and needs?

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