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Really love the person ushered in a break-up, no pain is impossible, whose heart is not meat long?

But…… Studies have shown that boys do suffer less physically and emotionally after a breakup than girls (Morris, 2015). This conclusion is based on experimental drops! A study of 5,705 participants in 96 countries rated the emotional and physical pain of a breakup on a scale of 1 (none) to 10 (unbearable), and the results showed that:

After looking at the results of the experiment, some of the sets may feel that Mousseton opened: “That’s it.” Dogmen really don’t have hearts! This…… That’s not what it means. In fact, boys break up after the pain is slightly weaker, part of it is also related to physiological factors.

In other words, it was the body that helped the boys disconnect from painful emotions (Maslar, 2016). However, while girls feel more pain, they are also often better able to recover fully. Men, by contrast, are more likely to be affected by long-term love loss.

“Being strong after a breakup quotes—-what’s the boy’s feeling after breaking up?”

Why are men more susceptible to falling out of love?

1. Premeditation vs. Suddenness

Many times, women are more likely than boys to end a relationship (Rubin, 1981). The researchers surveyed 231 couples about “who is more likely to break up in a relationship” and found that women were 9 percent more likely than men. In another similar survey (Hill, 1974), almost the same proportion was presented. And! Boys usually only are not interested in this relationship and break up, but even if girls still love each other, may also break up.

This is partly related to society’s stereotyped demands on women and their real plight:

In this social context, women tend to choose their partners more carefully and are more likely to terminate them promptly if they become aware that they are inappropriate. They are more predictive and relatively dominant in a relationship, sensing the potentially bad trends in the relationship and preparing ahead of time for separation (Hill, Rubin, and Peplau, 1976). Breaking up is a “long-planned(if not there) ” break-up for girls, and for boys, it seems a bit of a mystery.

Although the girls after falling in love are in pain, they will feel: compared to when he snubbed me, I am now in a better situation, the future has a better possibility

And the boys are: Alas, why didn’t I notice earlier? Why didn’t I keep it?

Sudden changes and the insociable relief of pain make it longer for boys to resolve and get out of love.

2. Positive strategies vs. negative strategies

Some boys as soon as they break up to go to the happy, look very comfortable. It’s probably just that they “look” all right. In fact, men are better at suppressing their own pain (Shimek and Bello, 2014).

Generally speaking, women are good at emotional and discourse communication, while men prefer to participate in activities. For example, when it happens to unhappy things, girls will talk to someone, and boys may only play games in a sultry voice.

Then the problem came, and no one read the mind. If you don’t say it, who knows if you’re unhappy?

Besides, women are more likely to reveal their vulnerability in a variety of cultural settings, while men receive more “strong education” and are expected to be more independent and stereotyped in their “masculinity”. Men have tears and dare not flick.

“Being strong after a breakup quotes—-what’s the boy’s feeling after breaking up?”

But that’s not a good thing. Properly exposing trauma is beneficial in the long run (Morris, 2015). Not only can you get emotional support and constructive opinions from social connections, but your narrative process can also help to explain negative emotions. So, boys are not painless but the outside world simply doesn’t know they’re in pain. In fact, not only are they sad, it can be long and long…

That’s not right! After the boys break up, they often have new objects soon. Does that mean he’s completely fine and completely forgets me?

Not necessarily. Men are more likely to enter a rebounding relationship after falling out of love as a transfer of affection for their ex-partner and as a source of support (Shimek and Bello, 2014). 

While there is the possibility of a re-encounter with true love, more often than not, it is only a stopgap measure – “a misguided effort to keep life moving forward” (Meyer, 2016) Of course, whether the backlash is not necessarily entirely gender-related. People with these characteristics are also more likely to enter into rebound relationships:

After the break-up, men’s and women’s feelings and feedback, there may indeed be such a lost difference, but obsessively to tangle who is more painful, perhaps really does not make much sense. For any (once) intimate relationship:

What matters is whether you heal the wound and grow

One important reason why some people can always get out of a relationship quickly and be brave enough to believe in the next person is that their attitude toward personality is fluid rather than fixed.

The reason your partner left was to find a place where he was not liked (at least not liked by ta). In the face of these negative qualities, if one believes that personal traits are constant, one may feel that these bad qualities have prejudged one’s life and become more negative and hesitant, and if they are “changeable” attitudes, they will be more inclined to see break-ups as opportunities for self-improvement, thus helping them learn to forgive, learn to accept the reality that they cannot control others, and so on.

“Being strong after a breakup quotes—-what’s the boy’s feeling after breaking up?”

Losing love is not easy for both boys and girls. But don’t get caught up in a vortex of doubt because of a painful love loss.

All experiences are helping you lead to a more aware and open self.


Dailey, R. M., Rossetto, K.R., Pfiester, A., & Surra, C. A. (2009).A qualitative analysis of on-again/off-again romantic relationships: “It’s up and down, all around”. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 26(4), 443-466.

Hill, C. T., Rubin, Z., & Peplau, L. A. (1976). Breakups before marriage: The end of 103 affairs. Journal of Social issues, 32(1), 147-168.

Maslar, D. (2016). Men Chase, Women Choose: The Neuroscience of Meeting, Dating, Losing Your Mind, and Finding True Love. Health Communications, Inc.

Morris, C. E., Reiber, C., & Roman, E. (2015). Quantitative sex differences in response to the dissolution of a romantic relationship. Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, 9(4), 270.

Rubin, Z., Peplau, L. A., & Hill, C. T. (1981). Loving and leaving: Sex differences in romantic attachments. Sex roles, 7(8), 821-835.

Shimek, C., & Bello, R. (2014). Coping with break-ups: Rebound relationships and gender socialization. Social Sciences, 3(1), 24-43.

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