Naked in bed against another person, although intimate, but also pay special attention to speaking, because you have no heart of a word may hit the other side’s fragile heart, or because of your words, the other person’s impression of you will be greatly diminished! Want to know what to avoid when you have sex? Look below!
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido. 1. Criticize each other’s body to speak
“You’re so fat”, “You’re so big a belly”, “You’re a little thick on your feet”… Whether male or female, it is a kind of injury to hearing your partner say that he is not fit enough, not to mention when he is entangled? “Now that you’re so dismissed, don’t do it!” Love fire goes out in an instant.
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido. 2. Answer the phone or mention someone else
It’s important to be focused enough to have sex! This is your private time and is not allowed to be joined by anyone else, so please do not mention any other person or thing, including your friends, exes, moms, co-workers, bosses, or even pets.
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido.3 “Are you going to make me strong?”
Everyone has their own strengths, don’t be so small! Wouldn’t it be better for a big man?
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido. 4 “I can’t accept premarital sex…”
Usually, say this sentence is no problem, but please do not say in bed, especially you have received a kiss, touch … It’s just not really put in. This situation is that you picked up the other side, a foot in front of the door but said no, you think this can control the other side, but in fact very annoying.
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido. 5 “I want / stool”
If you really want to do what you do every day at the moment of sex, say “wait for me” and go to the toilet to deal with it before you come out! To say it directly will make the other side “sun-soaked fantasy”…
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido. 6 Ask about things that have nothing to do with itching
In addition to asking each other about sex, such as what kind of position you like and “it’s uncomfortable to do this”, please don’t check the house in bed, ask the other person what interests you on weekdays, what movies to watch, how many people at home … It’s all boring.
This thing to say when sex makes people lose their libido. 7 When are we getting married?
You’re going to marry me if you do it? Use this as an equivalent exchange? Even if a man really loves you, it seems like a threat to scare each other away in minutes…
When the other half moans and screams selflessly, it’s actually an expression of extreme devotion. If you think it’s really a bit loud, don’t say it immediately. It’s a disappointment!
9. Why don’t you ejaculate?
It’s just a mine in a mine. I believe most couples are not brave enough to say it. It’s more likely that couples who have been married for many years have not ejaculated for a long time. When their wives see each other for a long time, they feel impatient and rush out. Once they say it, there may not be another time.