Many boys are secretly annoyed: Why do I often fail when I go on a date with a girl?
Why did it fail?
Actually, there are only two reasons why your date failed!How to tell if a girl likes you?
It may be a blow to say so, but if we want to solve the problem, we have to face it first.
Sometimes, the reason for the failure of the appointment is actually so simple, after meeting, the girl found that you are not interested at all, but she did not speak out.
Reasons why you’re not interested:
Maybe she gave you too high expectations during the chat, but you didn’t actually reach the heights you showed her. In contrast, she will be very disappointed, even if you are already very good, but girls are still a little unacceptable.
How can this be avoided?
When we invite girls, they often say: I don’t have make-up, don’t dislike it; I’m actually a little fat / ugly
Why do girls belittle themselves so much?
It is the role of expectations, girls may look good, she will also say some of their own terrible, one of the reasons is to let you have accepted that she is a worse girl, suddenly found that, wow, the original is a beautiful woman.
In this mood of ups and downs, there will be a feeling of picking up money.
Then we girls in fact sometimes can also take such a strategy, appropriately lower expectations, so that girls find that the real you are better than the Internet.
Second. You are bored.
This is the main reason why most girls and boys fail: the dating process is very boring, he doesn’t know how to do it, resulting in girls feel very bored and embarrassed, and then slowly lose patience and interest in you.
The premise that we’re dating and girls are following reasonable steps to stretch the relationship is that she’s interested in us.
If you judge that girls are not interested in us at all, there is no need to waste too much time and energy.
So that’s what we’re going to bring to girls and boys today:
How do you tell if girls are really interested in themselves?
One. Confirm the eyes
When I’m dating a girl, I can start to tell from my eyes
Then the eyes of the words are divided into several, the first is to meet when the meeting can start to stare at the girls first.
Then if she’s willing to look at me and see half shy, say, Why are you looking at me all the time? So this girl is interested in you now.
If a girl hides in front of your eyes, she even suddenly says: Look what. That means she’s not very interested in you.
How to tell if a girl likes you?
Tips for Eye Use:
1. your eyes should be aggressive and aggressive, do not look at her with desire and numbness.
There may be girls and boys who will misread aggression as a manifestation of desire, but it is not.
Aggressiveness is a powerful manifestation of social initiative, reflecting in your eyes to be confident, and looking at you can make you feel his oppression of you, but you don’t necessarily have any thoughts in your heart.
And the eyes of desire are different, this kind of eyes can be very unconfident, can be very weak, but obviously, you have some kind of desire for her. Once I showed that look, I thought the date would be over.
In fact, a lot of times and girls and girls dating interaction, do not you say something nice, just need a look intersection, you and her emotions can be conveyed.
If you can see her emotions in your eyes, it means that the girl is interested in you, then you can try to raise the relationship.
2.The placement of the mobile phone
The placement of mobile phones is a good illustration of how girls are treating you now
If you put your phone directly on the front.
The message pops up and you can see, and she’s not afraid to look at it, indicating that girls are interested in you.
If it’s buckled, it’s still playing with your cell phone from time to time.
So she’s not very interested in you right now, she’s probably talking to other boys, don’t buckle, the news pops up and you don’t see it? That would be embarrassing.
What if she basically didn’t touch your cell phone and put it on?
Congratulations, that means girls are over-interested! Because she doesn’t even have an interest in watching her cell phone at all, she wants to have a good chat with you.
How to judge, very simple, from the dating process to go to the bathroom or something to leave will not take the phone away, we can see her trust in us.
If she leaves her cell phone with her bag, it shows that she has a sense of trust in us.
But girls go to the bathroom sometimes carry bags, as for the reason I think men should know now, but she left her cell phone?
Ok! Very good performance, which shows that girls have little reservations about you, you have very, very trust.
In turn, she took everything away and left you sitting there alone, indicating that the girl still had some caution about you.
If a girl is interested in you, she will care about her image in front of you.
For example, when she came out of the bathroom, she observed whether she was deliberately sorting her hair;
Or, pay attention to the girls go to the toilet before and after the appearance of the face makeup has not changed, such as re-powdering, lipstick, or the clothes did not deliberately pull the neat.
If you find out she has, then girls and boys you have to seize the opportunity to quickly raise the relationship with her!
On the other hand, nothing has changed, or she’s not interested in you, and she doesn’t care what she’s like in front of you.