We often encounter this kind of situation in our daily life, whether it is the temperament or the inside, some girls all the conditions are above the pass line, and people are also very good, kind and gentle, friends around them feel that they are very good. But they are almost always single, and some may be permanently single or even motherly. They are not the eyes of the master low pick and choose, some people around almost no pursuit of the opposite sex. A lot of people have this question, why such a good girl but no one to chase?
First, from a male point of view
1) It’s hard to chase
If you look closely, it is not difficult to find that for many boys who want to get rid of the single, to chase a girl’s basic condition is not how good the girl is, but to see whether she is good or bad to chase. Boys are very smart, he can quickly find from a group of people that looks very good chasing girls, generally, very good chasing girls will also exude a “come after me” gas field, two people are easy to catch up.
And those who see the good girls, often do not take the initiative to hand out their own want to take off the signal, boys naturally look away
Step, when they feel that their success rate is very small, naturally will turn to those who may be the slightly worse, but very good pursuit of the girls.
This is common in young boys, who may be more afraid of meeting a girl who wants to live their whole life than to commit to a person for a long time. And the good girl in everyone’s eyes will give the boy a kind, if you fall in love with her, she may depend on my feelings all my life. This feeling is not hollow, in general, the longer a single girl will be more cautious about love, may therefore produce some long-term commitment ideas. At such times, even love can put a certain amount of pressure on the other person’s behaviour and psychology. Sometimes it’s not that the other person doesn’t want to be responsible, it’s that under constant pressure it’s hard to breathe, and it’s afraid to take responsibility.
We often encounter this kind of situation in our daily life, whether it is the temperament or the inside, some girls have all the conditions.
Over the line, and people are also very good, kind and gentle, friends around them feel that they are very good. But they are almost always single, and some may be permanently single or even motherly. They are not the eyes of the master low pick and choose, some people around almost no heterosexual pursuit. A lot of people have this question, why such a good girl but no one to chase?
Second, from a female point of view
Girls who are in good condition but have no long-term love object are often very into-oriented, that is, the good in everyone’s definition
Good girl. They are not good at words, they are not sociable, they have no habit of socializing with the opposite sex, and they have no habit of actively participating in social activities.
2) The sense of distance is very strong
These girls tend to give the opposite sex a feeling of loneliness and coldness, not that they really do, but that they have been in contact with the opposite sex
they habitually distance them from all the opposite sex. Even in the face of their own good feelings of the object, there will be a full sense of proportion, so that the opposite sex feel difficult to touch.
3) There are fewer opposite sexes in the social circle
This may be due to their own personality, or they may not have much opportunity to study a major or work environment
for the opposite sex. In fact, this situation is not uncommon, in different positions, the gender ratio does vary greatly.
As we mentioned earlier, the more people who have not been in love for a long time, the more cautious they are about falling in love. May be in love often in people’s eyes, love is a common thing. In the eyes of people who have no long-term love experience, love is a matter of great significance. In short, they are very cautious about falling in love, so it’s harder to get into a relationship, whether it’s out of a desire to look good or to find someone they’re perfectly satisfied with.
What kind of girl is more attractive to boys?
1. Funny and good character
When it comes to fun, it’s probably the so-called funny soul in everyone’s mouth. The main thing is to say that you need to have something you love and self
your strengths, which can make people feel that you have a multi-faceted nature. Good character is to say don’t twist and pinch don’t do,
Don’t be so extra-extract, it’s enough to be generous and real between talks.
Embody is the expression of whether one person can understand another person’s manifestations if a person does not have a certain degree of the embassy
heart, then she is difficult to stand on the other side’s position to see the problem, which will create friction, people feel that this person is selfish or difficult to contact and so on.
3. Confident and optimistic
This is not only attractive to others, but also a quality that everyone should possess. Self-confidence and optimism convey
A hope of life. If a person exudes temperament is always depressed or lifeless, not only will not be attractive to others but also for themselves can not get a good living environment and living conditions.
4. Maintain independence
This is a common point. The most important thing for a girl is to have a self, and it is most important to ensure the dual independence of spirit and economy
of the. In any case, over-reliance will only lead to the other side’s disease and want to escape, there will be no attraction. No matter when remembering that you are a complete talent is the most important.
Of course, different people have different needs. Not everyone longs for love and the other half, and it doesn’t have to be troubled by the outside world’s eyes. Everyone lives for themselves, and as long as they know what they need, no other voice is enough to affect everyone’s life.
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