If an old man is single, he always likes to date, fall in love, or even get married to a woman much younger than himself. The reason is not only that “as long as it is a man, whether 25 or 52 years old, like young beautiful women” this article, but also involves five older men younger woman relationship issues.
1. For the sake of a man’s face. Men love faces, especially older men, who love faces more. They worry that they are old, uncharted, ineligible for love, afraid of being compared to young men, ridiculed and looked down upon by those around them. How do you prove that you’re still male- and male-attractive? The most direct and effective way: there is a woman who is much younger than herself. If you fall in love with a woman who is much younger than yourself, it shows that you are no different from those young guys. Young women can make old men’s male self-esteem burst.
2. Young women ask for less. Compared with older women, young women are not deeply involved in the world, more simple, they are willing to be with the old men, likely, it is really only because of a certain aspect of the man’s personality charm attracted, really just because of worship and love, there will be no excessive consideration and requirements. Old men and young women get along more easily and without much burden. If happy together, unhappy will be happy to separate. Many young women are open-minded, they feel young and have the capital to play, and they don’t want to settle down so early. They fall in love with old men, perhaps just for happy memories, do not need men responsible. This is also particularly attractive to men. And older women and young women’s timely fun psychology is different, their attitude towards feelings will be more serious, in the initial stage of love, they set a clear goal and long-term plans, resulting in the loss of a lot of love fun.
3. Getting back young feels like a mid-life crisis after a certain age, regardless of whether you admit it or not. In the face of the mid-life crisis, the old men on the one hand because they are no longer young and anxious and depressed, on the other hand, want to grasp the tail of youth, eager to return to the young years. And young women can be subtly infected with young people’s thinking, perspective and mentality. The closer you get to young people, the more you look like a young man, so that you can smoothly get back to your youth, get back to old age, and get rid of the panic that the mid-life crisis has caused you. Leonardo da Vinci, a famous painter, was once a psychologist, a man so famous that he could do anything. No one has ever interviewed Leonardo da Vinci, but Leonardo da Vinci wrote in one of his paintings: “When I paint an 18-year-old woman, I feel like I’m back in my youth.” Many boys like 18-year-old women, 18-year-old women are not only younger but this kind of woman full of vitality. When a man is 50, you will find that as time changes, people become more and more nostalgic. Arguably, when a man sees an 18-year-old woman, he thinks of his old days. Some people think that a 50-year-old man likes an 18- or 19-year-old woman because the man is fancier, so he likes young women, but sometimes not. People are like this from time to time, as a person, not because they simply like this person, but miss their own once a period of time. Everyone’s youth is very valuable, we have experienced a lot of things, perhaps in the youth moment, we have a lot of people and things have missed. So when you see an 18-year-old girl, it’s like seeing someone who’s been in the heart. So a lot of boys like 18-year-old girls who can give themselves energy. In life, some men who betray their wives for an 18-year-old woman may not even think they really like this woman. Maybe it’s just a wish to meet a young man who doesn’t finish it.
4. Want children. Whether or not there were children in a previous relationship, once a new relationship and marriage began with a new woman, a man wanted to have another child. If you are with a woman of the same age, the woman is likely to have passed the golden age of childbirth, it is difficult to get pregnant again, even if it is not easy to get pregnant, the risk to the health of the child will be higher. Young women, on the other hand, are more likely to achieve the goal of a man who wants to have children.
5. He was hurt once by a woman my age. For example, a divorced old man, and his ex-wife of the same age marriage is not happy, so gave him the impression that women of the same age and their wives are similar, have the same world view and attitude towards marriage. Once bitten by a snake for ten years afraid of good rope, by the same age of a woman injured once, dare not look for a woman of the same age. As a result, older men tend to look for women who are much younger than themselves, feel that women at this age will be very different from their ex-wives, and feel that younger women will demand less and have less trouble than women of their own age.
6. Young boy’s emotional security and economic situation (generally just a few years of work, no savings) are difficult to compete with an uncle (a lot of love experience, the economic situation is also good).
Conclusion: In fact, age is only a number, although the old men will be because of these five psychological reasons, tend to find a much younger woman than their own, but a long-term harmonious relationship between men and women, relying on mutual respect, trust and love. The age gap is really only a very small problem, do not be too obsessed with age, but should focus on how to operate the relationship between men and women, how to establish an equal and harmonious atmosphere is more useful.
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